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The Scientific Training of Children by Christian D. Larson Order in Adobe PDF eBook form for $4.95 or click here to order from Amazon.com Book Description This book is based on the belief that a genius exists in the subconscious of every mind. That every child is born with an interior something that when developed can produce remarkable ability, extraordinary talent and rare genius. It is therefore of the highest importance that the young mind be trained properly so that all of its latent power and capacity be developed. Chapter One In the past we believed that if any child was
not born
with remarkable ability no system of training could give him such
ability. We
believed there was very little in him because we did not see any signs
of
talent on the surface. We therefore concluded that he would have to
live his
life as an ordinary mortal. But now we know that every child is born
with
something of exceptional possibility in him, whether it shows on the
surface or
not. And we also know that that something can be brought to the surface
by the
proper system of training. This being the truth no child should be
neglected
simply because he does not manifest exceptional brilliancy in the
beginning. There is just as much talent and genius in
the dull
child as in the bright child, the only difference being that in the
latter
genius has become active, while in the former it is as yet inactive.
But it can
be made active in every mind to its fullest capacity and power. In the
scientific training of children the first principle to be recognized
and
applied is, that remarkable ability, extraordinary talent and rare
genius does
exist in the deeper mentality of every child. And that whatever exists
in the
deeper mentality can be developed and brought out into tangible
expression for
practical use. It is only a matter of knowing how. The belief that child training should be
deferred
until the ages of six, eight or ten is not consistent with the natural
law of
development. Such is simply a belief that has originated from the fact
that the
modern system of training is in so many instances detrimental to the
best
mental welfare of the child, the reason being that it tends entirely
too much
to cram the surface of the mind, thus overworking and stupefying in
many
instances what intellect there may be in action on the surface. As a
system it
does not bring out the greater mentality of the mind, not knowing that
that
greater capacity has existence. The fact is that the proper development of
the child
cannot begin too soon, for when the development is proper, every day
will add
to the strength and power of the child's nature, both physically and
metaphysically. What can be done now should be done now, for if it is
not done
now it will have to be done later. But no time should be lost, and no
energy
wasted. Everything should be made to count because what is not for a
person is
invariably against him. Every child has the latent capacity to become
much and
achieve much. The child that remains ordinary remains ordinary because
it is
neglected. It is not being taught to bring out the power, the talent
and the
greatness that exists within. But if we wish to promote the welfare of
the
individual as well as the race, and we all do, we cannot afford to
neglect a
single child. After having recognized the principle that
every child
is born with capacity for greatness, the next step is to so train the
child,
both in thought and action, that everything he may do will tend to
bring out
the talent and the genius that does exist within him. In other words,
he should
be trained to so live that all things in his life will work together
for the
promotion of the one great purpose the bringing out into practical use
every
spark of greatness that he may inherently possess. And every child does
possess
the capacity for greatness, superiority and high worth. This capacity
we all
have inherited from our one Supreme Source a fact which modern
psychology has
demonstrated conclusively. Therefore we should act accordingly, making
it
possible for every person to be all that is in him to be. To train the child to develop and bring forth
the best
that is in him, we must first train him to make true use and full use
of those
elements, forces and faculties that are already active in his life.
This will
not only turn all active forces to good account now, but will also make
the
outer mind a more perfect channel through which the genius from within
may be
expressed when we proceed to develop that genius. In this connection the first essential is to
give
proper direction to the energy that is generated in the system of every
child.
The average child generates an enormous amount of energy, and not being
taught
how to use this energy burns it up recklessly, mischievously,
barbarously, and
too often abusively both to self and others. He is constantly scolded
and
frequently punished for doing what he simply has to do. The energy is
there and
he is positively unable to rest until he has disposed of it in some
way. For
the fact is, so long as he is not taught how to use this energy orderly
and
constructively, he will follow primitive tendencies and use it
disorderly and
destructively. Here we should remember that no child was
ever
punished justly. So long as parents do not teach a child how to dispose
of
surplus energy to good account the child cannot be blamed for using
that energy
recklessly, which usually means destructively. And practically all
mischief
among children can be traced to one cause; that is, a superabundance of
energy
with no knowledge as to its wholesome use. Therefore what the
mischievous child
needs is not a switch, but a little more practical instruction. The rod
never
conveyed any knowledge and never will. And no one can expect to avoid
the wrong
until he knows the right. Punishment may suppress evil tendencies, but
it does
not produce the better tendencies. And what is very important, no form
of
suppression ever produced a permanent good. The good, the true, and the
worthy
comes not from suppression, but from proper direction. The surplus
energy of
the child should never be suppressed, for suppressed energy is wasted
energy,
and power is too valuable to be thrown away. We cannot have too much power when we know
how to
apply it in the building of a great life. And this is what every child
should
be taught just as soon as he can understand simple words. The child
should not
be permitted to waste his surplus energy in wild conduct and
harum-scarum
living simply because a false conception of human nature has taught us
to
believe that "boys must be boys." The fact is, boys do not have to be
boys in the barbarous sense, and they do not have to be mischievous in
order to
prove there is something in them. We do not have to be savages in
boyhood in
order to amount to something in manhood. Such a view of life is simply the result of
deep-dyed
ignorance of child psychology. And because we have been ignorant along
this
line so long, it has become a habit to believe such absurdities.
However, these
beliefs must be eliminated completely if we wish to train our children
to become
all that they have the power to become. Though we must not go to the
opposite
extreme and believe as some pseudo-pious, undeveloped minds believe,
that the
child must remain in the "seen, but not heard" attitude in order to
be good. It is not inactivity or lifeless peacefulness
that
produces goodness, but an extraordinary amount of life and action
applied in a
wholesome, constructive manner. The child that is alive will
necessarily be
noisy, though the same is true of the mechanics who are building a
sky-scraper. But noisy children will not disturb us when we know that
noise is
to some extent a necessary part of the making of things. It is not noise among children that should be
eliminated, but the reckless and destructive use of energy. Parents who
have a
habit of compelling their children to be absolutely quiet are actually
placing
a serious obstacle in the way of the future welfare of those children;
because
to suppress energy is not only to waste energy it is worse than that,
for
continued suppression will after a while decrease the amount of energy
generated; and the less energy you generate in your system the less you
can
accomplish. Chapter Two TO train the child to make profitable use of
surplus
energy there are several methods that may be employed to advantage. The
first
of these is to find the natural talents of the child and then give him
work to
do at frequent intervals that will bring those talents into play. This
will
develop those talents and at the same time turn the mind away more and
more
from the tendency to be wild, reckless or mischievous. There are parents, however, that do not care
to have
their children develop such talents as may appear in childhood unless
those
talents are considered wholly respectable. But to secure the best
results every
child should be developed along the line of natural aptitude, and
should not be
forced to do something different simply to please the high-toned notions of parents
or near
relations. We must remember that a genius is a genius,
no matter
what his occupation may be. And in the long run it is not a certain
kind of
work, but good work, that brings honor, happiness and due reward. There
are
times, however, when it is advisable to develop the child mind along
lines that
are entirely different from the talents that are indicated in the
beginning,
though this is a subject that will be discussed later on. The belief that children should never work,
but only
play, is also a mistake. A certain amount of work is necessary to the
best
result in the development of the child, because all energy that is
applied in
work is turned into constructive channels, and will produce the ten- dency of construction in the system. The
stronger this
tendency is in the system the more rapidly will the various faculties
and
talents develop, provided, of course, such development is desired. And
those
tendencies that are established in childhood are always the strongest. Therefore, to train the young mind to do
something
constructive, that is, to be engaged more or less in work, is highly
important.
This is especially true when the child is given work that he likes.
Though in
this connection we must remember that when the child is compelled to do
too
much, even of that which he likes, the work becomes drudgery and has a
detrimental effect. The child should be permitted to choose his work
and the
amount of time to be given to such work; and he will do it wisely and
faithfully if well instructed as well as thoroughly trusted by the
parent. Remember here to have faith in your children.
Live
constantly in the faith that they can and will apply your instructions
properly, and they will seldom, if ever, fail to do so. That young minds despise work is not the
truth. There
is scarcely a boy who does not long to do something useful, provided he
is per-
mitted to choose his work and is not driven. While the average lady of
four
would be more than delighted to help mother in many ways if she were
only
permitted; and she ought to be permitted, even if all her work had to
be done
over. For if she were gradually instructed and made to feel that her
efforts
were truly appreciated, she would soon become a most valuable
assistant, and at
the same time she would develop the constructive tendency in her mind. The idea of giving children something useful
to do at
frequent intervals is first, to turn more and more energy into the
process of
construction; and second, to cultivate the art of doing things. It is
practical
results that count, and when the art of doing things is developed early
in life
it will come easy later on to turn all things to practical use. The
importance
of this becomes very evident when we know how many bright minds
accomplish
little more than nothing because they do not have the knack of making
themselves practical. However, the idea of putting children to work
at
anything and everything, simply because we need their assistance, is a
mistake.
Such a course will not produce good results, but will in the majority
of
instances prove detrimental to the child. The child should be given
work for
which there is natural aptitude. Help him to select that work and
direct him in
turning his best talents into his efforts. He will thereby not only
promote his
development along natural lines, but a great deal of energy that was
previously
wasted will be turned to good account; that is, his energy will have
become a
building power in his mind and personality. The modern tendency to combine industrial
training
with intellectual training in the public schools is a move in the right
direction, though it will not fulfill its purpose completely until each
child
is given practical training along the lines for which he is naturally
fitted.
We must adapt the educational system to the needs of the child, and not
compel
the child to become simply a cog in the machinery of that system. Another method through which the child may
dispose
more properly of a great deal of surplus energy is to have him engage
in play
that requires just as much thought as action. This will reduce the
action
somewhat so that there will be less noise and more order; the interest
will be
deeper, the pleasure much greater, and considerable energy will be
drawn into
the mind, thus increasing the capacity and the power of mentality. However, we must not try to feed the mind
with extra
energy at the expense of the body. We cannot afford to do this because
a strong
mind requires a strong, vigorous body. But all that energy that is not
required
in the body of the average child, and there is a great deal, should be
turned
into the mind. It should not be wasted, and the simplest method for
turning it
into the mind is to encourage children to engage to some extent in play
where
considerable thought is required. Such play always gives the greatest
pleasure.
It will therefore be an easy matter to get children to make such plays
a
permanent part of their daily enjoyment. In this connection we should remember that
the child
must play, and that pleasure is just as necessary to the growing minds
as
sunshine is to the flowers of the field, though this is true of all
minds in a
measure, whether they are under ten or over ninety, or anywhere
between. No
mind can develop or remain healthy unless it receives a certain amount
of
enjoyment every day. All young people should have a good time and they
should
continue young as long as they live, but they should not be taught to
believe
that reckless living between the ages of twelve and twenty constitutes
real
pleasure. We are too well aware of the fact that the
good time
that the average person takes usually lasts until twenty or twenty-two
only, when
it is followed by a decrease in personal power and mental activity, and
not
infrequently by some chronic ailment that lasts all through life. We do
not
have to violate natural laws in order to enjoy ourselves; this,
however, too
many young people do as we all know. But such is not pleasure. It is
mental
intoxication. And the result is that girls frequently lose the bloom of
youth
and the boys their brilliancy, their vigor and their ambition, while
the
majority of both sexes lose more or less of their health, working
capacity and
virility. But we cannot blame the young people. They
have
surplus energy that they simply must dispose of. And they have not been
taught
how to use their energy in such a way that pleasure may be secured in
connection with a constant development of greater ability and power. It
is
therefore highly important that the child be trained early to seek
pleasures
that give mental enjoyment as well as physical. The happy blending of
both,
enjoyed in perfect harmony with the laws of life, will bring the best
results,
and such a mode of enjoyment will be all gain, with absolutely no loss.
After the child has passed the sixth or
seventh year
it should be taught to conserve its energies consciously within its own
system
by concentrating attention for a few minutes every day upon the various
nerve
centers, while during the time of concentration gently desiring the
energies
of the system to accumulate in those nerve centers, including the
various parts
of the brain. It is just as important to teach this to the child as to
teach
him the alphabet, and he will learn the one as readily as the other.
The child
that is taught to practice the conscious conservation and transmutation
of
energy will increase the capacity and power of his mind and body to a
remarkable degree, and will also develop a strong, fine personality
which is
a matter of extreme value in the worlds of attainment and achievement. This practice will also save the child from
the misuse
of that phase of creative energy that is expressed through the sex
function,
and there is nothing more important than this. The misuse of this
energy has
spoiled the brilliancy of thousands of young minds. And it is a fact,
that if
all had been taught in childhood how to control and conserve these
vital
energies of the system for constructive use, we should have many times
as many
great men and women as we have in the world today. Every child should be taught as early as
possible the
practice of poise so that all nervous actions, inharmonious actions and
wasteful
actions may be entirely avoided. The average child generates an
enormous amount
of energy; in fact, enough energy to develop exceptional ability and
power in
anyone if properly directed and employed. To know how to train the
child to use
this energy in building up his mind, his body and his personality to
the
highest degree, and at the same time enjoy the days of childhood just
as much
as the happiest child that ever lived, becomes therefore a matter that
is
second to nothing in value and importance. And in this connection, the
methods
just presented, if wisely employed, will produce most gratifying
results.
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